Whoever doesn't ever feel the pain out of love, please make a comment on this. Second thought, I doubt it.
It started with "I'm not a fighter, I'm a lover" kinda words just to melt the heart. Soon conquered the mind by showing the very best attitude ever....the caring, the consideration, the one who opens the door, the one who would call you late at night and the list can go on. Later as the day gone by and as they get to know each other pretty well, the true character revealed.
I'm not trying to be prejudice but if a total stranger expressed their love towards someone they have not met, it's hard not to.
There is an interesting quote by Francis Bacon, "If a man shall begin with certainties, he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts, he shall end in certainties". To such extend, I rather practice what I read and learn from it or be doomed to repeat the history.
Nonetheless, I am on my way of reducing the domination of certain negatives. Making fewer instant judgments. Being more tolerant and less critical. Hence, more willing to listen to other views and alternatives.By the way, seeing is believing.
As the lyric goes "Say everything, say anything...if you said nothing the words will die". Looking back, love hurts pretty hard but having a wishful thinking that someday when the time is right, the right guy will prove me wrong. Till then,based on the above...LoVe HuRts......
It started with "I'm not a fighter, I'm a lover" kinda words just to melt the heart. Soon conquered the mind by showing the very best attitude ever....the caring, the consideration, the one who opens the door, the one who would call you late at night and the list can go on. Later as the day gone by and as they get to know each other pretty well, the true character revealed.
I'm not trying to be prejudice but if a total stranger expressed their love towards someone they have not met, it's hard not to.
There is an interesting quote by Francis Bacon, "If a man shall begin with certainties, he shall end in doubts; but if he will be content to begin with doubts, he shall end in certainties". To such extend, I rather practice what I read and learn from it or be doomed to repeat the history.
Nonetheless, I am on my way of reducing the domination of certain negatives. Making fewer instant judgments. Being more tolerant and less critical. Hence, more willing to listen to other views and alternatives.By the way, seeing is believing.
As the lyric goes "Say everything, say anything...if you said nothing the words will die". Looking back, love hurts pretty hard but having a wishful thinking that someday when the time is right, the right guy will prove me wrong. Till then,based on the above...LoVe HuRts......



























